Aha. We have a result. It was not as we all thought.
I even press-ganged a local computer geek to see if he could reconnect. I was very impressed with his dexterity and his eyesight, but even he failed to reconnect. Thus I drove into the big city and sought out a guru, with a view to acting on Bigmet's advice.
(You can just whip the plug off and connect the wires, one pick up wire per motor wire: a little work with an ohmmeter will detect which connects to what.)
The guru inspected the connections, and was perplexed until it became apparent what had been done. Mr Bachmann had omitted to glue the connector to the board properly, and in pulling out the plug I had taken the entire assembly out. It should be in two pieces, ie, male and female, and both had come away, exposing those pins. The piece that should have been stuck on the board is a sleeve that shortens the pins, protecting them from bending, but has an extremely tight tolerance, making it near impossible to put the pins in in situ, wires and all.
So I went home, stripped the tender, and pulled the sleeve off the plug. Now I had good access to the pins, and with my better half holding a magnifying glass, I managed to reconnect the pins through the sleeve. I put the tender back together, and the plug slipped on, just as it should have done. Phew. The Jubilee now runs. Now that it all works, it only remains to superglue the sleeve to the board so that this can't happen again.
You can see that the plug socket has square holes which guide the pins in easily. I did cheat by reaming out the holes in the sleeve with a needle.